By: Cindee Yeo
A Love Affair Wedding Concepts
Website: www.love-affair.com
Email: cindee@love-affair.com
Member, Association of Bridal Consultants
(©Copyright, 1998. A Love Affair Wedding Concepts.)It is a good
idea to select a theme for your wedding before embarking on the journey of making wedding
plans. By having a theme in mind, you will find it easier to make decisions when it comes
to making your bookings for your gowns, location and other wedding items.
A well-planned theme wedding also gives you the pleasure
of knowing your guests will attend a memorable wedding, where everything has been well
thought out & executed for their maximum enjoyment. Your "es-theme" will
rise knowing your guests will leave your wedding with sweet memories of how personal &
different your wedding was. A theme wedding also offers a good reflection of you &
your partners personalities as you incorporate your likes & hobbies into the scheme of
themes.... and what better time to do this than at the start of your lives together.
We offer you some suggestions of easy-to-implement themes
but do not stop here. Let your imagination run wild as you put together a wedding that is
meaningful to you and enjoyable for your guests. Talk to a reputable Wedding Consultant if
you need help with the "how-tos", the "where-tos" and the
"how-much?"
TIPS
Having a Theme Wedding will require good planning. Here
are some of the things to look out for:
Food. While selecting a menu that suits
your theme, be sensitive to the needs of ALL your guests. There may be racial, age-group
&/or religious considerations.
Location. Be sure to decide if you want
to have an indoor or outdoor wedding. Have an estimate of the number of guests you will be
having on-hand before booking a site.
Decoration. Get help from friends or
hire a Professional.
Outfits. Inform your designer of the
theme you are having and listen to his/her suggestions. Do remember to wear only something
you can be move around comfortably in.
Favours. Something in line with the
wedding theme so guests have something to take home with them.
Guests. Choose a theme your guests will
be comfortable with. You may not be able to please everyone but be sure to have something
appropriate. If your theme involves guest participation, give them ample time to get
involved. If not, surprise them!
Wedding Themes
The Fairy Tale
Here is where you can live your Prince Charming &
Cinderella fantasy (complete with evil stepmother-in-law!!!)
Food : Serve food thats fanciful
& dreamy. Have each course served amidst dry ice to conjure up the magical.
Location : With the wave of a magic wand
& preferably with the help of a professional wedding decorator, any function room can
be transformed into your palace.
Decor : Think ice carvings. Get a
professional decorator wedding to create the image of being in the enchanted kingdom.
Outfits : Big princess ball-gown, (magic
wand to be included). Groom must wear a tuxedo.
Guests : Persuade your guests to arrive
in costumes. Get key people in your wedding party to go all out with their garb!
Romantic Candlelight
Tell them he/she lights up your life. Light up the
candles....lots of them. Create an ambience of romance.
Say It With Flowers
Your love in full bloom, reflected in your choice of
buds. Select a flower and work with that. How about combining different flowers in a
similar colour. A client once chose 3 different flowers - Tulips, Iris & Matthiola as
her wedding flowers because the first letters of the flowers spelt out her husband Tims
name.
Flowers can be used to decorate the church, the reception
area, the home and even the food display. The same flower(s) can be used in the bouquets
and the car decoration. As a thank you to your guests for attending your wedding, how
about presenting them with a stalk of your favourite flower.
Heart-To-Heart
You can have a heart theme for your wedding. Decorate
everything with hearts, whether in different colours or in a single colour. Big hearts,
small hearts. You may even wish to have little hearts sewn onto your wedding gown. A good
designer will be able to incorporate any theme into your wedding dress.
Now, guess the shape of the wedding cake.
Bursting With Love
Love is definitely in the AIR when you use balloons as a
theme. Available in all shapes, sizes & colours, you can use balloons anyway you
please. You can even set up a balloon shaping booth to keep the kids entertained. There is
nothing more festive than to walk under a ceiling flooded with helium-filled balloons.
The above are just some ideas you can use to have the
wedding of your dreams. You may even have an ethnic theme, a seashell wedding, a beach
wedding, a garden wedding. The choices are endless. The important thing to remember is to
create that special moment for yourself & your guests. Once you decide on your wedding
theme, you can start your shopping for all the other wedding needs.
For help with the planning & implementing of your
theme wedding, you may wish to consider hiring the services of a wedding consultant who
can give you ideas & put it all together for you. |